I also always moisturize my entire genital area before putting it on because a cage that is dried is similar to that of a car running with no oil. Before I put it on I always make sure that I shaved clean because if any hair gets caught on the hinges it'll pull. I own a plastic Holy Trainer and it's actually quite comfortable. Try not to purchase cages made of cheap materials on Amazon because most of the time these sellers recycled materials and that can irritate your skin. Metal can be a bit heavy and drags your dick down so I don't recommend it for first-time users hard plastic is a safer bet.
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Which leads to us to hard plastic and metal. I completely agree with L&L about the soft silicone: if you get hard and the material bends, it defeats the purpose of chastity play. The most popular materials are hard plastic, silicone, and metal. The material plays a crucial role in comfort and fit. Most chastity cages on the market are mass-produced so that's why it's tricky to find one that fits just right unless you do custom made which is not something I would advise for a first-time user simply because it's expensive and you might end up not liking it. So let me walk through a couple of steps to make L&L chastity journey a bit easier. The problems L&L stated are pretty common and this is due to many factors: ring size, tube size, gap size (the space between the ring and the tube), the material, the design of the cage, whether or not they shaved and if they kept their genitals moisturized. Also, learning to cum through anal stimulation is such a feat that once achieved, L&L, you might not want to cum through jerking off ever again. There's something so erotic about losing your ability to jerk off and having to depend on your Dominant in order to receive pleasure. I find it refreshing to hear that L&L wants to experiment with it because they wants to control their premature ejaculation which, understandably, can take the fun away when you're having sex. Most of the time, guys want to experiment with cages is because they want to further explore their submissive side. Just like any fetish, there needs to be knowledge and techniques in order to enjoy and find pleasure.
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More and more people are dipping their feet into the amazing world that chastity kink has to offer. These questions are really good and L&L is not alone with these issues.Ĭhastity fetish is a super sexy kink and I'm so glad to see it taken off within the past few years. I would really appreciate it if you had any advice for me on options that fit my desires and limitations! Because I want to be. The hard plastics, on the other hand, get incredibly painful after about twenty minutes, especially when I am hard, like a burning/stretching, to the extent that I have to end/safeword out of the scene-and I'm of average size so it's not an issue of completely incompatible fit. With the silicone one, it bends and stretches, uncomfortably constricting me and making the "not being able to touch it" purpose ineffective. I've tried several cages: a cheap plastic one, a Holy Trainer, and a silicone one. However, the getting hard easily issue seems to be getting in the way. While I've looked into some options to handle it (sprays didn't work and I want to prioritize psychiatric needs for meds), I honestly enjoy non-dick pleasure more-hence locking my dick up so that it's a non-factor seems appropriate. I'm pretty good about communicating what works for me to partners and not too self-conscious about it-it's a physiological quirk-but it does get in the way of really enjoying scenes and sex, since I have to focus on not coming (and it definitely gets in the way of topping). A factor in this is that I get hard very easily (like I'm a damn teenager) but also come quickly. I'm open to trying it longterm, but I'm focused really on using it for scenes/sex that lasts a few hours at most. Some details that might help: I'm most interested in chastity as a way of de-centering my cock from the pleasure and sensations that I feel during sex and other kinky play. I would love your help determining if this is a matter of my body not being compatible with chastity or if there's a device/method that would work better for me. I've played a few times with chastity devices, and each experience has been excruciatingly painful. I'm a 23-year-old, single genderqueer (and any-gender-dating) dick-possessor.